Many adults think that teenage girls are worried about sex, but this is simply not true. Sex is not the biggest concern in their lives. In response to a questionnaire, the girls mention the following activities in order of importance:
- Have intimate friendships with other girls.
- Progress in school.
- Have friendship with boys.
- Being romantically related to a boy.
- A sexual relationship with a boy.
The results of this questionnaire show good and bad news for the boys: bad news if you think that girls want a lot of sex-frankly, they prefer sports; Good news if you’re going to have friends and act slowly. The romantic aspect is important for girls.
Sex is last among girls’ priorities: intercourse is the least significant activity among the sexual choices they could make. Not to be mistaken, at the beginning of adolescence, friendships with other girls are more important than with boys. As girls advance in their teenage years, however, male relationships begin to play an essential role in their lives.
These are reassuring news for both sexes; It means you should not think about sex for some time. It also says that when you hear your friends boast about having sex, it’s probably a lie. Do not feel pressured to be like them.
The qualities that girls look for in boys can help to calm manly anxieties. They show that girls do not look for movie stars, sparkling conversations or expensive entertainment. Mostly they look for a typical guy like you. It is a relief for the boys to know that they should not maintain a macho image. In general, girls prefer boys with a sensitive trait, who do not fear demonstrations of affection.
What are the boys looking for?
Regarding girls and the sexual experience, it is not uncommon for adolescent boys to have an inferiority complex, because they believe that all their peers are ahead of them.
Because of the way the kids talk, they put a lot of emphasis on sex, and they make people believe that they spend a lot of time engaged in some sexual activity. But they are only words. The answer to a questionnaire shows that the boys give priority to the following actions:
- Progress in school.
- Make friends with other teenage boys.
- Make friends with girls.
- A romantic relationship with a girl.
- Sex with a girl.
It is interesting to see the great importance that they give to sports. Sports activities provide children with another form of escape for their energy.